This weekend was filled with highs and lows that perfectly illustrated the various emotions related to adoption.
My aunts (maternal) came to visit from SC this weekend. *A* and I went to my parents’ so we could all spend time together. We hung out and went to dinner on Friday. My mom cooked breakfast on Saturday and I got to drive Mrs. Daisy (and her sisters) around town all day. *A* had a blast. He played with his cousins, my aunt threw the ball around with him in the front yard. He had his first trip to Toys R Us….it was an epic weekend, lol. He’s much more comfortable with our extended family. It was a little tough for them because we’re huggers but *A* does NOT hug people unless he’s comfortable. I explained it to my entire family beforehand but it was still a struggle for them because *A* is an extension of me so they want to give him the same affection they give me. This weekend *A* hugged without hesitation. It was a big deal. As we left to come back home, my aunt was so exited that he actually initiated the hug. They understood the significance of the hugs and were really happy that he’s beginning to feel that level of comfort in our family.